Say NO to BULLYING in the WORK PLACE and anywhere else!

Ok, this is might be too annoying to see, especially things like this happened in work place!

We all know, for those who want to get work experience, Singapore is a good learning ground with a standard that internationally recognized , don't judge me yet on this statement, but try to work in Indonesia and compare how people work in Singapore, I think you will know what I mean.

If you have haven't work on the both compared places, shut up.

Anyway, as much as tough learning ground can be 

(especially if you are a fresh grad having your first job), never let the supervisor, manager or even your colleague treat you the way this stupid intern treated.

The thing that I don't understand about this whole situation is 

" WHY this poor kids never stood up for himself? "

If you received S$10.000 a month and being treated like this, ok lah..somehow you need to hold on for the sake of the $$. But having $500/$600 a month, without any annual leave?

man, this is the same amount of Bangala workers received in SG.

I'm sharing this not because I need to boost up my stats for this trend issue in Singapore, but if you know me..I am ANTI BULLYING! 

No bullying in anyway! 

and ALWAYS stand up for your self everybody!

* Arrgghh..seeing weak people being bullied makes me angry, not to those who bully (they are trash in the first place, sooo not worth my attention)..but for the one being bullied *

Back to the video..I always imagine if i am in the position of the stupid/poor kid..I think, no! I would definitely kick his balls as much as he beat me. Crack balls to the stupid supervisor!

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Greedy much? Indeed I am!

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This is what I got!


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jauh jauh deh dari gw..

Pagi pagi aku keki sama salah satu anggota family yang bermulut dua, bermuka dua dan berlidah ular. OMFG. Sebenernya ga ada hubungan darah sih sama gw, karena nempel aja jadi mo ga mau nyebutnya keluarga. Bisa gila juga kalo punya direct family kayak ini orang.

Harusnya gw cuekin aja kan yah? harusnya gw anggep ni orang ga exist kan ya? tapi kok for some reason, gw harus denger about ni manusia dari orang orang..yang entah ngabarin kabar " hebat " ato " perbuatan " aneh apa lagi yang dilakukan oleh orang ini..dan itu bikin gw bisa sampe muak loh dengernya.

Jarang gw muak sama orang, paling keki keki dan itu besoknya ya uda balik lagi ga kenapa napa. Tapi sama ini orang ya aulooooo, gw heran pake pelet apa pula ini orang? lakinya uda kayak puppies, disuruh duduk, duduk. Disuruh " jangan ya! ", berenti berbuat. Anjing gw aja ga segitu nurutnya.

OMG, ampunin gw dah Tuhan karena berpikir gini...tapi gw cuman harep, orang orang terbangun dari peletnya dia. Dan herannya, kenapa gw yang selalu dapet jawaban dari kebohongan dia, yang gw juga bingung kok cerita dia, dijadiin cerita orang yah, dan ya istilah busuk ditimbun lama lama pasti kecium juga bau nya.

At this point, gw cuman ngarep..gw ga pernah kenel ini orang, so my life and my family life could be peaceful. Dan semoga ga ada kebohongan aneh lagi yang tersingkap di muka gw. Bener bener let your soul be saved deh non, or your tongue burn in hell.

God, if u ever read my blog or even more knows my heart..let this bitch be unseen from my sight..and teach her a goddamn lesson. please?

And forgive me for this evil thought.

I am expecting..a new member in Da House on 15 October!

I think many of you who doesn't read Bahasa roughly knows that I am expecting a baby by the previous title and also from the Ultrasound photo. :D

Yes, Indeed I am!

I am now on my18 weeks!

And so ready to start this new journey.

Flash back to February 2013,
it was on the Chinese New Year season where I felt sick most of the time and easily tired.
I thought it was because of the rainy season, non stop travelling and the full schedule of my blogging event and the make up job I had. But I never suspected that I am pregnant. Not at all - although I am hoping so.

We decided to try for baby since November 2012, but the timing was not always right, like the ovulation schedule I downloaded from the free app doesn't match the ovulation test kit I bought from Watsons. It gets me confuse, because technically..apps it's just an apps right? but when I tested my ovulation cycle-according to the apps- using that expensive ovulation stick, it was always shown an empty circle, means no ovulation. Shit.

Next attempt,
we took a week hornymoon to Bali in December, you know..to relax and stay away from the hectic life in Singapore, with the thinking that maybe the egg is stress..so let relax it for a week, taking diving certificate, stays in a nice villas, eat our heart out and..... Nope. Negative.

Then I got impatient.
 Oh yes, I am very impatient and when I want it, I want it now.
(So you better save ur comments on how other people keep trying for years and still full of hope blablabla..- I am just not that kind of person). I know myself better, when I want something, I want to get it before I lost my interest in it, and apparently it does apply on baby too. But one thing that I amazed on how God works in my life, it's like.. He knows me, He know me too well I guess. He gave the little angel to us on January, when we don't even plan it properly. Maybe this is the saying that; us, human- plan, but God decide.

I found out that I am pregnant on 9 February 2013 - CNY eve, when I was in Jakarta with the family.
I was 3 days late for my period, and decided to buy the cheap test pack in Jakarta..and get it tested at night, it came out 2 stripes. I was shocked.

Then I told my Mr. " It's positive " and above all the comments, he said " Congrats baby! "
What?? I know right, It sounds like I am graduating or winning another award kind of reaction, not a dramatic reaction I used to see from movie. Haha!

I get it tested for the second time on the next morning - 2 stripes.
Then I tested it with the expensive test pack in Singapore, yeap: 2 stripes.
Ahh..I am pregnant.

~ Ini gimana sih ya benernya, ga bunting keki..bunting, malah ga percaya ~

In disbelief, I booked Henny's gynae at Paragon medical.. and the doc found the heartbeat :)

So I am officially a preggers.

Although I hate being pregnant at first, I still think that this journey is quite wonderful..after the fatigue and unforgiving lethargic feeling is gone, I am now enjoying the pregnancy.
With this, I am very grateful to cherish my pregnancy journey with

^^

My first encounter with Mary Chia was during Singapore Blog Awards 2012, where Mary Chia is the sponsors of Beauty category and I was the winner! I believe that everything happened for a reason, the winning that I got last year lead me to be in touch with the leading Beauty and Slimming specialist in Singapore - Mary Chia, and when i shared the good news with them..they decided to support my pregnancy journey and more over, be my generous sponsors in getting my shape back after the pregnancy. How awesome is that???

Omg, I am so grateful and at ease to know that I am in a good hand in getting my shape back post pregnancy. I hope you guys stay tuned with me and follow my pregnancy journey with Mary Chia.
I am confidence Mary Chia could get me back my pre pregnant body or maybe even better than that.
If you have not read my journey with Mary Chia before, read it HERE and HERE.

I am VERY happy to have Mary Chia to be my Slimming and facial sponsors for this awesome journey!

Wish me a smooth pregnancy journey everybody!
Now it's time for me to Bo Phai Seh to look for more baby sponsor..hahahha..baby is expensive leh, and I just want the best for my baby.

Anyone wanna sponsor me? :P

Hadeuh..dilema dan pencerahan..

Ternyata bunting bawa dilema gajebo ke gw bo!

Seperti biasa, gw tipe yang parno-an, full of plan and susah banget loh yang namanya idup nge-flow aja liat kemana angin idup ngebawa kita, dan lebih susahnya lagi idup sama abang Arip yang ga ambisius nge-plan apa-apa kayak gw. 

Gw tipe yang ok, I need to do this and that supaya gw bisa achieved ini dan itu..dan all this while, I made it happened, gw ketemu orang yang ngebantu gw on my way up, yang akan selalu gw inget, thankful and grateful for..dan kalo kata pepatah kan " don't ever forget the people you meet on your way up because you might see them again on your way down ". Jadi karena gw kebiasaan punya pola idup yang I need to work it out to be successful, gw juga secara ga sadar..have this kind of mind set juga untuk my future baby. 

..Dan minggu lalu tuh gw dilema abis dong, mikirin..what is the measurement of raising a baby successfully? Kan ga ada standard ya bo? Kalo kerjaan kantor gw, jelas targetnya..gw mau setiap taon gw ada promosi, gw naek gaji, gw dapet bonus, dan gw selalu jd top employer..sok perferctionist abis dah gw? Ember! 

Balik ke baby, gw bengong dong..gw mikir nya mulai dari yang paling deket ngaruhnya ke baby gw dan little family kita, yaitu duit. Gw ga ada prinsip yang mo dapet barang sebagus bagusnya, dengan harga semurah murahnya, sama sekali engga. Gw lebih prefer bayar mahalan but i get better stuff. Dan dari prinsip begitu, kita mulai ngeliat harga rumah sakit, harga ngelahirin baby, baby stuff, trus liat angka tabungan..itung itung dll, pusing ngeliatin digit nya..dan akhirnya it comes to a point that, gw berasa..gw sebenernya bisa ga yaaa? dan sampe deg-degan sendiri. hahahahha..sumpe ga penting yah.

Ditambah the next question:

Mo kemana kita settle abis baby is born?

Tiap tiap tempat yang kita have in mind itu ada plus and minusnya - ya eyaaalah yaa -
dan dong tambah gundah, padahal brojol aja belon. Hahaha..
All we know is, kita ga mo stay di SG for good.

Ini sih maunya kita yah, ga tau maunya Tuhan gimana..

Nah ini, ini nih..faktor Tuhan yang gw udah tau dan udah ngalemin kalo Tuhan baek tapi suka banget gw nge-plan semua seenak jidat gw tanpa nyari apa maunya Tuhan. Kalo kata Belzy, sebenernya Tuhan uda siapin kok semuanya..cuman kita manusia ini aja yang suka sotoy dan arrange our own life,

he eh..teorinya gitu ya..cuman ini yang namanya otak manusia gw, o-em-ji dah!

Tapi selalu deh, setiap gw berasa worry nya uda nglebihin batas kewarasan gw..tiba-tiba Tuhan buka jalan, tiba-tiba..Tuhan kasih berkatnya..

Kayak awal mula, soal gw khawatir dengan biaya ngelahirin di rumah sakit private Singapore dan embel embel nya, ngeliat angka dollar yang berdigit gitu serem juga yah..

Dan sebelon ada orang yang bilang " uda tau ga ada duit tapi masi beli alat lenong " sini aku clarify, SEKARANG semua alat lenong saya puji Tuhan di sponsor dan kalo aku pamer pamer, itu juga karena aku seneng dapet hibahan dari para sponsor. 

Dan juga, sebelon ada yang berasa kaya yang bersimpati mo minjemin duit ke gw, it's ok - Thank you - gw masih sanggup. Nanti aja pas baby born, kalo mo hibahin berkat ke baby kami aja. Hahahahha..-teteup-

Anyway, balik lagi..ke soal ongkos lahiran yang gw khawatirkan itu..ternyata, Tuhan uda take care loh. Gimana caranya Tuhan beresin ongkos lahiran gw? Pake sponsor blog gw..hahaha..gw sampe takjub sendiri loh..tiba tiba ada yang mo kontrak saya untuk jadi spoke person company mereka, dan mewakili para ibu yang nanti nya mo balikin badan lagi pasca lahiran. Besok gw bakal tanda tangan kontraknya, dan akan aku kasih tau..company mana yang Tuhan pake buat beresin ongkos lahiran gw. Hahahaha. 

Trus walo belon ada jawaban, dilema soal mo kemana abis baby is born..gw berasa nemuin pencerahan dari hasil obrolan gw ke 2 orang. Satu, temen di SG..yang bulan depan dia pulang for good ke Solo, dia tuh new daddy dan punya karir bagus lah di bank Singapore..dia let go loh karir dia demi a better quality life sama anaknya.

Dan pas ngobrol sama dia, gw dapet jawaban dari worry nya gw soal..

mo tinggal negara mana, yang enak idupnya, gede duitnya, dan bagus untuk anak anak?

Jelas banget suara di kuping gw " your blessing is yours, and it will follows no matter where ever you go " Cihui yah tu guideline? 

Satu lagi, pas gw ngobrol ma temen deket arip di New Zealand, si Nona ini bilang " Focus on God and you should be fine "  trus ditambain sama dia embel embel " dateng aja ke NZ " hahaha..

Sekian curahan ati gw..selipin nama aku yah di doa doa kalian, biar aku dijauhin dr orang orang aneh, orang orang yang mulutnya penuh hawa negatif dan semoga kehamilan aku lancar lancar ajaaaa..dan aku hepi selalu, sponsor sponsor laen berlimpahan memenuhi kamar bayi saya. Amin.